provide helper stuff via env
Provide MANTICORE_HELPER_URL env with the URL of a helper.
If such is set, daemon will ignore any 'buddy_path' param, will NOT
start and/or manage and trace any external application, provided by this
param, and also will not try to kill any processes on stop. Instead,
helper will be considered as always available by this env as url.
That is intended mainly for fixing debug capabilities (as some debuggers
are confused when any external applications are forked/executed during
startup), but also that may be used to trully break out external helper
from the daemon, and manage it independently.
That fixes #3225