debug info fixes/refactor
This fixes (on my end) #3340, #3117, #2945, #2922, and #2762
A general refactor of debug info generation in order to fix issues and
increase stability.
What I believe is the root cause of a bunch of issues is that we use the
temporary metadata/forward declarations too much (/ hold onto them for
too long). It seems to cause problems with the reference counting inside
LLVM.
This PR reduces the use of these forward declarations to a minimum, it
creates it, fills in the fields, and resolves it, instead of waiting
until the end of generating code.
Some smaller issues I came across have also been solved.