Adjusting JVM parameters for Dropwizard, Jetty, Resin, Undertow (#2652)
* Add common JVM settings to toolset->java.sh
Modify Dropwizard, Jetty and Undertow start scripts to use them
* Add JAVA_OPTS description to the README.md
* Rename JAVA_OPTS to JAVA_OPTS_TFB
* Fix typos TBF->TFB