[ruby/grape] Reduce connection pool size (#8568)
I got the following results locally:
```
+--------+---------+------+-----+-----+-----+-------+--------------+
|threads |plaintext|update| json| db|query|fortune|weighted_score|
+--------+---------+------+-----+-----+-----+-------+--------------+
|master | 30018| 5669|51864|20665|10083| | 699|
|5 | 19278| 7043|50914|23169|11094| | 817|
|3 | 21420| 7287|46779|23205|10921| | 826|
|2 | 22695| 7981|48680|24954|11535| | 892|
+--------+---------+------+-----+-----+-----+-------+--------------+
```