iphonesim: use ios_simulator_version_min
The linker expects ios_simulator_version_min rather than -iphoneos_version_min
when targeting the iOS simulator platform. Fixes compilation with Xcode 11
toolchains, which is more strict about this.
(cherry picked from commit 3263e12a3e10979b45b7f3ee5e5b38bedd844b03)